Why are you not showing up on the people search?
Because you did not complete your profile questions. Complete all the questions on the first page. Then make sure you click on the tabs above the questions for the other pages of questions. There is a page of social questions, one for music/bands and one for business. When you complete them it adds you to our search.
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